The Art Of The Resolution

New Years Resolutions.  I love the idea of rebirth, change, and becoming a new you.  It doesn't happen, of course, but sometimes we can chip away a little at the bad us.  

12 Years ago today I resolved never to smoke another cigarette.  That reminds me, I need to get another thank you note to Dr. Currie who prescribed Welbutrin to help in my efforts.  Every year since then around this time I send him a card thanking him for his support.  I guess you could say he saved my life, or at least some of it, and a whole bunch of money.  They have since stopped using welbutrin as a smoke cessation drug and use it primarily now for depression.  Side effects are suicidal ideations.  Hmmm.

Anyway, in the dozen years since I quit, I really quit.  Not one puff.  I have a ceeegar every so often but they don't count, do they?  I don't even have pangs of desire anymore.  I'm cured.  

The following is a transcript from National Public Radio regarding resolutions and the making of.  It is kind of surprising.  The gist is that resolutions do work if done right.  Here's hoping you have the power to chisel away at the bad.

Dr. NORCROSS: In two of our longitudinal studies, 40 to 46 percent of New Year’s resolvers will be successful at six months. So, the half empty is it’s true, most people fail. But 40 to 46 percent is pretty impressive. [...]
You know, I was tired of people saying resolutions never succeed, we shouldn’t even try them. And I said, well, wait a minute, these are life-sustaining behaviors. What’s the alternative? So, the alternative was to track people starting before January 1st with the same behavioral goals, with the same motivation to stop or to take the resolutions but who just weren’t going to do anything then. And that’s – and only four percent of them were successful at six months. So you go from four percent, all the way up to 44, 46 percent by taking a New Year’s resolution seriously and trying to do something about it.

10 times the success rate! So people who made resolutions had a 40% success rate as compared to 4% from those who had the same motivations but didn’t set resolutions. Definitely encouragement for would-be resolvers. More goods news is that the studies found that slips or short lapses in the resolution did not always lead to failure. Many people used the lapses to strengthen their determination.
How to set a good resolution. Norcross recommends setting attainable, realistic, and measurable goals. So lose 10 pounds instead of 50 pounds or “a lot of weight”. Save $100 more from each paycheck vs. saving an extra $15,000 somehow during the year. Grandiose goals set you up for failure, as you need to have inner confidence that the specific goal you set is achievable. This agrees with the popular SMART mnemonic that says that goals should be Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant and Time-sensitive.
So, resolutions are good, especially if you do them right. However, you may want to keep number of resolutions to a minimum:

FLATOW: So you do one thing at a time, you know? Don’t say, I’m going to diet and quit smoking at the same time, because you’ll never get them both done.
Dr. NORCROSS: Well, there’s some interesting research on that. And that is, it depends how much time and commitment you have. If the two resolutions are related, then it may make sense to do it together. For example, losing weight and increasing exercise – most people see those things as going together. But if there are two very different resolutions, you may just be overwhelmed with the amount of time and energy that they call for. So, we ask people never more than two. If they’re related, two is great. Otherwise, just do one at a time.

Well, there you have it.  I hope we all have better years in 2013, and that there are more ups than downs.  I resolve to be...